hypothesis of happiness

The other day i was watching "The Pursuit of Happyness" a story of a struggling salesman who takes custody of his son as he's poised to begin a life-changing professional endeavor.as i was watching this inspiring movie i realised that although money makes the world go round but still it cant buy the real happiness.by real i mean the one dat makes you happy from the heart .
happiness is the result of all the right wheels turning at just the right time.
 You’re walking down the street, find 500 bucks, get a compliment from a stranger, meet the perfect guy or girl (and don’t totally make a fool of yourself), go to ur favorite store and get 50% off, etc., etc.sometimes a dinner at five star doesnot give u happiness which u find at a dhaba on the street side offering the finger licking food

Happiness is a choice.that's right a choice.Not an accident,not a charitable gift from the universe.you need to dig it out of every situation no matter how worse it is.
happiness is about choosing to see the adventure in every moment, choosing to understand that there will always be a light after the dark, that there is always good in every situation and every person, no matter how grim things may seem.


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Happiness is going against everyone by  taking part in an adventure sport with ur life at stake and then having that never ending glow on ur face

Happiness is sitting on a park bench facing the calm river with your lover by your side and the birds making the atmosphere all the more musical and romantic with their melodious chirp with the sun peeping thorough the shady tree

Happiness is when you have your own private serenaders singing outside your window for your birthday. :) And your family coming overseas to see you.  <3

Happiness is summer classes with awesome people and doing what you love :)

Happiness is eagerly waiting for the summers just for the sake of that fleshy stone fruit "mango" and eating it till the 'gutlee' (seed) turns white

Happiness is hearing from an old friend after years and reviving the old memories

and the list is endless

When we choose to be happy, things tend to work in our favor, and luck seems to be on our side

PS Be happy by default as you are miserable by your own fault

celebrations :) :)

Today I woke up to a wonderful surprise-This little blog of mine has 100+ followers  I remember getting excited when I made it to double digits, and now I'm into triple, yay!
Today I have officially hit 100+ Google Connect followers! Time to celebrate!

I have met new friends and mentors along the way and I love communicating with you all via the comments section and emails,  I am very grateful and feel blessed to have such wonderful readers :)
words cant express  the awesomeness of  all  you lovely individuals . It seems like just yesterday that I was deciding what to do for my 50 follower giveaway, and now here i am having double of that! I just want to thank each and every one of you for supporting my blog. It really does mean a lot....
thanku all for being my family far away from my own family...
cheers! you all keep me going :)


free vodka for all :)

riding a seesaw life

Update? eh I’m fine. learning to live alone again. and that’s fine.  When you’re happy in your head then you’re happy in your life, and I’m finally figuring out many things that I love, that I’ve learned, and that I have gained.  Like, It’s not scary to walk alone at night if you know the way, and have the “don’t fuck with me” on face  when a creepy guy passes you, whose probably drunk. I’ve begun to notice the things that bug me, and the things that used to but don’t anymore.  For a while I felt as if I’ve been cold, but it’s only because I’ve been living in my head for a while.  I’ve noticed that I have neglected people who I truly care about, such as my family and old friends.  I’ve noticed that my heart isn’t as big as it used to be, and that saddens me, but it also makes me think. “why spend so much time worrying about people who shouldn’t be the biggest issues in your life?"
 and that how i have a thousand enemies and haters, but then have that one friend, who is worth those thousands.
life is like a seesaw, you got to balance it right, or else you will end up crashing down :)

 

i miss hugs

I miss hugs
I miss warm hugs
I miss the ones that make you feel all fuzzy inside
I miss the ones that make you feel so happy that you could just stand there forever
I miss selfless ones, where someone is just hugging you for you with no other intentions but to hug you.
I miss hugs that are given by my mom and my dad that just feel like home, like when you were a kid and their arms were the only thing that fixed all the scrapes and boo boos
I miss hugs from long lost friends
I miss hugs from past lovers and the feeling you get when you know that they don’t want to leave you for far off places.
I even miss those awkward hugs that people go for because they thought you intended a hug instead of a hand shake.
I miss hugs,  nowadays I don’t get enough. :/

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Imagine no chocolate cake.

 Hershey's kisses and their chocolate spa probably would not be invented. What about chocolate ice cream, chocolate chips?
But what would the world be like if chocolate was never invented? What would Valentine's day be like? No brownies or chocolate cake or chocolate chip cookies. Delicious chocolate truffles, mousse and trifles…poof…gone! No more chocolate covered popcorn, nuts and pretzels. Or maybe they would be covered in white chocolate. And of course the marriage of coffee and chocolate is legendary.

Maybe the word itself would not even exist.  So all the colors and shades of chocolate that have become popular today would not exist. The removal of that one word and food would have a big impact on our existence. Think about all the shades of chocolate brown.

Imagine life without chocolate.

HORRIBLE!!!!







i was reading Time magzine where it said that beef farming is destroying thousands of acers of rain forests every single day..yeah,just like you,at first i didnt really care but then i read further on in that article and i was so shocked !

you know what is in that rain forest? the CACAO tree.the cacao tree where chocolate comes from.

all these greedy corporate motherf****** are threatning my chocolate supplies :( :( :O

i dont want to live in the world without chocolate

somebody please stop the madness :(



dedicated solely to me

~Eccentric ex-teen

~eternal optimist and hopeless romantic.

~I like to be known as the person who - 'spreads happiness' :)

~khaana-loving,gaali-giving jammu girl                                      

~love me

~pamper me

~ envied

~wishes to tame a crocodile

~"earphones"-one of my body organs now

~push doors instead of pulling

~feel fat on occasions

~quite paradoxical

~extraordinaire

~a budding engineer

~i believe.i let belief creep under my skin.

~i dont fake a smily.

~i spend money on wrong things

~i'm responsibly irresponsible..but thats ok..i'm learning

~emotional to the core

~in love

~i'm awesomest(nah,dont google it.i coined it)

~my funda of life : load lene ka nai,dene ka !

~i'm the dragon in the skin of a goat

~i speak,i talk,i jabber a string of uncontrollable words that might or might not make sense
and with what i narrate,i can make u cry,i can make u laugh

~i want to sing like the birds sing,not worrying about who hears or what they think

~And I like Butterscotch and chocolate slightly more than normal people do.

~I like running up 'down escalators' and running down 'up escalators'.

 
~A COMPLETE GIRL ruled by her passion for art. She decides what she DESERVES. She deserves what she DECIDES.


~Smile is my makeup & Attitude is my Jwellery!


~Just a SWEET POISON


~I M living my life like the ending is approaching

in fond memory of ....

time has passed since u left but yet it seems like you're still a part of me.I still long for you sometimes and miss you and wish you were here with me all this time.
you were always there for me,a pillow to cry on,someone to share good and sad times.
I miss the way you use to be my alarm clock
i use to hate it but now that you're gone, i wish i could do anything to have you back as my alarm clock.
I miss the way how I use to laugh at you being the biggest Ah Long ever.
when you left,
it was as if my whole world collapsed.
i was numb and sick
i didnt know how i could continue without you.
years have passed and your belongings still remain untouched its as if or as though no one wants to move it because deep inside i miss you still.I miss you deeply but I will always have a part
of you in me.So as you laying in your grave I hope that what is said in the book "Heaven Is So Real"
that you will be at the fields in Heaven where no form of pain or suffering exist.


 i do miss you alot.
i wish you were here right now


you're irreplacable.


:( :( :(